Sexual Assault Against Males

Facts About Sexual Assault Against Males

  • Sexual violence of males is not uncommon. About 1 in 6 males experience some form of sexual violence at some point in their lives.
  • Sexual assault is a crime of power and control, not a crime of passion or sex.
  • Adult sexual contact with young boys and adolescents is sexual abuse, not sexual initiation.
  • Being sexually abused as a child does not mean you will become a sexual offender.
  • Being gay is not determined by experiencing sexual abuse/assault.
  • Most offenders are not strangers, they are often someone you know and trust.

If you are a male who has been sexually abused as a child, sexually assaulted as an adult or sexually harassed, it is often difficult to tell someone about the sexual violence you have experienced.

This page provides information for male survivors of sexual assault about statistics and facts related to sexual assault, and supportive resources that can be accessed in the community.

Why is it difficult for male survivors to talk to others about their experience?

You may feel discouraged because you have talked to someone about your experience and did not receive the support you needed.

  • Not getting the proper support is often related to stereotypes and myths about sexual violence against males.
  • Men can experience a lot of self-blame because there is the social perception that males should be strong enough to resist attack.
  • There is also the misconception that men should enjoy all forms of sexual contact.
  • These ideas can lead to feelings of confusion and self-doubt.
  • Finally, men are socialized not to talk about feelings and personal problems and therefore, continue to keep the trauma and pain internalized.

(Adapted from "Date Rape-Some Important Facts to Know", Sexual Assault Rape Crisis Centre of Peel)

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Halton Resources for Survivors of Sexual Assault

Remember you are not alone, it is not your fault and with help and support you can feel better.

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