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Learning to use the toilet is part of healthy development. Just like learning to walk, it is a child’s ‘readiness’ and not their age, that influences when to begin toilet learning!
Toilet learning is easier for everyone when parents:
Parents are often ready before their child. Most children are physically, intellectually, and emotionally ready between the ages of two and three. Look for the following signs that your child is ready to begin toilet learning.
Remember: Every child develops and learns at their own pace!
If the first try at toilet learning does not work, it might be because your child isn’t ready. Take a break for one to three months and watch for signs of readiness.
In the beginning, your child may be afraid to poop in a potty or the toilet. If that happens, let them poo in a diaper so that they are not holding it in. Constipation can make going to the toilet painful and toilet learning longer. If you’re worried that your child is constipated, talk to your doctor about what you can do.
Talk to your doctor if your child:
Promoting independence in toileting is typically encouraged in school settings. School staff recommend that your child be as independent as possible when using the toilet. Check with your child’s school or local school board to understand the expectations and procedures around toileting.
Do you have questions about toileting or need support? Call 311 to connect with HaltonParents or visit your local EarlyON Child and Family Centre (external link):